have faith in the journey..

in june, during a sob fest dinner with one of my girlfriends, she asked me "who is debbie? think about that. you need to know who you are in order for you to love who you are." that resonated with me because i couldn't answer her at the time. i remember sitting in the sushi …

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steady heart

you didn't want heaven without us so Jesus, you brought heaven down my sin was great your love was greater what could separate us now? what a wonderful name it is... nothing compares to this what a wonderful name it is the name of Jesus. what a beautiful name - hillsong worship if you have …

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this is what you don’t do.

"don't let this world make you bitter. don't let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside. certain things happen that hurt us. people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you're bound to fall. don't let those things make you unkind. it's okay to cry. it's …

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sober thoughts.

What shoes am I going to wear with this outfit? Should I wear my hair straight, curled or up in a bun? Do I want to go with vampy red or flirty pink? Should I get a salad to cut the cals or just get a burger? 10 more reps? Would that make me look extra yolked? Should I …

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the best is yet to come.

"there was a man who had four sons. he wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. so he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. the first son went in the winter, the second in the …

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what love looks like.

i’ve always been a hopeless romantic. i’ve exhausted all the movies in the romance section of netflix and will never turn down the opportunity to hear a good love story. everyone has their wants. some people want fame, some people want wealth, some people want kids, my biggest want was always to fall in love. …

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it will get better.

When your in your 20s, you're either single, in the butterfly stages of a relationship, or you've been in a relationship for quite sometime. The 20s are the years you begin to figure out what kind of person you really want for yourself, and what kind of person you know you aren't compatible with. With …

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